Tough Love Bonding Conditioner 03
Not Your Mothers
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Tough Love Bonding Conditioner 03

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Excellent bonding conditioner with unique ingredients! Tannic Acid provides polyphenol bonding action. Contains Panthenol (B5), Arginine, and superfood seeds: Linseed (flax) + Chia for omega-3. Good conditioning base with multiple fatty alcohols and quats. NO MI/MCI, NO formaldehyde releasers. Only 2 fragrance allergens. Great companion to Tough Love Shampoo for damaged, color-treated hair.

Quick Description

Tough Love Bonding Conditioner 03 is a conditioner crafted by Not Your Mothers to keep scalp and hair balanced. It is designed for everyday use and aims to leave hair feeling refreshed and lightweight. The formula features key ingredients selected to cleanse, support scalp comfort, and maintain a clean finish. Ideal for users wanting a thorough yet considerate cleanse with a focus on clarity.

Ingredient Overview

Water, Cetearyl Alcohol, Cetyl Alcohol, Behentrimonium Chloride, Stearalkonium Chloride, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Propanediol, Tannic Acid, Arginine, Panthenol, Linseed Seed Extract, Salvia Hispanica Seed Extract, Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone, Isopropyl Alcohol, Fragrance, Hexyl Cinnamal, Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone, Phenoxyethanol
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Highlights

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Key Ingredients

Water

Base solvent

Cetearyl Alcohol

Fatty alcohol for conditioning

Cetyl Alcohol

Fatty alcohol for softness

Behentrimonium Chloride

Conditioning quaternary for detangling

Stearalkonium Chloride

Conditioning quaternary

Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride

Lightweight coconut-derived emollient

Ingredient Table

Ingredient Details Rating
Water
Base solvent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetearyl Alcohol
Fatty alcohol for conditioning Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetyl Alcohol
Fatty alcohol for softness Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Behentrimonium Chloride
Conditioning quaternary for detangling Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Stearalkonium Chloride
Conditioning quaternary Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride
Lightweight coconut-derived emollient Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Propanediol
Plant-derived humectant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Tannic Acid
Polyphenol antioxidant - helps bond hair structure Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Arginine
Amino acid for hair strength Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Panthenol
Pro-vitamin B5 for strength and moisture Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Linseed Seed Extract
Flaxseed rich in omega-3 fatty acids Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Salvia Hispanica Seed Extract
Chia seed - rich in omega-3 and antioxidants Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone
Modified silicone with amino acids Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Isopropyl Alcohol
Solvent - lower in formula Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Fragrance
Added scent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Hexyl Cinnamal
Fragrance allergen Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone
Fragrance allergen Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Phenoxyethanol
Safe preservative Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate

Explanation of Key Groups

Surfactants

Primary and co-surfactants (e.g., Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Coco/Ampho betaines) provide the cleanse, foam, and removal of scalp oils. Mild co-surfactants help soften the feel and improve tolerance.

Clay Minerals

Clays like kaolin, bentonite, or montmorillonite absorb excess sebum and impurities, contributing to a fresher, balanced scalp feel without heavy residue.

Actives

Ingredients such as salicylic acid or zinc derivatives can support gentle exfoliation and sebum regulation, helping keep follicles clear and comfortable.

Humectants

Water-binding agents (e.g., glycerin, hyaluronate) attract moisture to reduce the stripped feel after cleansing and keep lengths softer.

Safety Notes & Allergens

  • Fragrance allergens (e.g., linalool, geraniol, coumarin) may be present if fragrance is listed.
  • Colorants (CI numbers or named dyes) are aesthetic only; skip if you react to synthetic dyes.
  • Potential irritation: strong surfactants and fragrance allergens can bother very sensitive scalps.
  • If you have fragrance allergies or highly reactive skin, patch test before full use.

Summary

Best suited for users seeking a clear, balanced cleanse. It effectively targets buildup with its surfactant system and supporting actives, while maintaining a light feel on the hair. Be mindful of surfactant strength, fragrance presence, and any colorants if you are sensitive.

Who is this product good for?

  • ✓ People wanting a refreshing cleanse with balanced oil control
  • ✓ Those comfortable with light fragrance in haircare
  • ⚠ Very sensitive scalps should monitor for fragrance or surfactant irritation