Tough Love Bonding Leave-in Protector
Not Your Mothers
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Tough Love Bonding Leave-in Protector

Spray
72
Moderate
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Expert Recommendation

Clean leave-in protector from the Tough Love line! Contains natural Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum (Tara gum) for heat protection, lightweight Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride oil, and Lactic Acid for smoothing. Good conditioning base with double humectants (Glycerin, Butylene Glycol). NO MI/MCI, NO formaldehyde releasers. Only 1 FRAGRANCE ALLERGEN - cleanest in fragrance profile! Great companion to Tough Love Shampoo (68) and Conditioner (74).

Quick Description

Tough Love Bonding Leave-in Protector is a spray crafted by Not Your Mothers to keep scalp and hair balanced. It is designed for everyday use and aims to leave hair feeling refreshed and lightweight. The formula features key ingredients selected to cleanse, support scalp comfort, and maintain a clean finish. Ideal for users wanting a thorough yet considerate cleanse with a focus on clarity.

Ingredient Overview

Water, Cetearyl Alcohol, Butylene Glycol, Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone, Behentrimonium Chloride, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Glycerin, Cetrimonium Chloride, Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum, Lactic Acid, Acrylamidopropyltrimonium Chloride/Acrylates Copolymer, Isopropyl Alcohol, Fragrance, Hexyl Cinnamal, Phenoxyethanol
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Highlights

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Key Ingredients

Water

Base solvent

Cetearyl Alcohol

Fatty alcohol for conditioning

Butylene Glycol

Humectant

Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone

Modified silicone with amino acids

Behentrimonium Chloride

Conditioning quaternary

Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride

Lightweight coconut-derived emollient

Ingredient Table

Ingredient Details Rating
Water
Base solvent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetearyl Alcohol
Fatty alcohol for conditioning Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Butylene Glycol
Humectant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone
Modified silicone with amino acids Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Behentrimonium Chloride
Conditioning quaternary Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride
Lightweight coconut-derived emollient Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Glycerin
Humectant for hydration Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetrimonium Chloride
Conditioning quaternary Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum
Natural Tara gum for film-forming and protection Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Lactic Acid
AHA for smoothing and pH balance Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Acrylamidopropyltrimonium Chloride/Acrylates Copolymer
Styling and conditioning polymer Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Isopropyl Alcohol
Solvent - lower in formula Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Fragrance
Added scent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Hexyl Cinnamal
Fragrance allergen - only 1! Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Phenoxyethanol
Safe preservative Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate

Explanation of Key Groups

Surfactants

Primary and co-surfactants (e.g., Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Coco/Ampho betaines) provide the cleanse, foam, and removal of scalp oils. Mild co-surfactants help soften the feel and improve tolerance.

Clay Minerals

Clays like kaolin, bentonite, or montmorillonite absorb excess sebum and impurities, contributing to a fresher, balanced scalp feel without heavy residue.

Actives

Ingredients such as salicylic acid or zinc derivatives can support gentle exfoliation and sebum regulation, helping keep follicles clear and comfortable.

Humectants

Water-binding agents (e.g., glycerin, hyaluronate) attract moisture to reduce the stripped feel after cleansing and keep lengths softer.

Safety Notes & Allergens

  • Fragrance allergens (e.g., linalool, geraniol, coumarin) may be present if fragrance is listed.
  • Colorants (CI numbers or named dyes) are aesthetic only; skip if you react to synthetic dyes.
  • Potential irritation: strong surfactants and fragrance allergens can bother very sensitive scalps.
  • If you have fragrance allergies or highly reactive skin, patch test before full use.

Summary

Best suited for users seeking a clear, balanced cleanse. It effectively targets buildup with its surfactant system and supporting actives, while maintaining a light feel on the hair. Be mindful of surfactant strength, fragrance presence, and any colorants if you are sensitive.

Who is this product good for?

  • ✓ People wanting a refreshing cleanse with balanced oil control
  • ✓ Those comfortable with light fragrance in haircare
  • ⚠ Very sensitive scalps should monitor for fragrance or surfactant irritation