Tough Love Bonding Shampoo
Not Your Mothers
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Tough Love Bonding Shampoo

Shampoo
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Expert Recommendation

Excellent bonding shampoo with all gentle sulfate-free surfactants. Contains Itaconic Acid for hair bond repair, Arginine and Panthenol for strengthening, plus Linseed and Chia Seed extracts for omega fatty acids. Multiple conditioning agents prevent stripping. Uses eco-friendly chelating agent. Minimal silicones (modified only). Only 2 fragrance allergens. Great affordable option for damaged hair.

Quick Description

Tough Love Bonding Shampoo is a shampoo crafted by Not Your Mothers to keep scalp and hair balanced. It is designed for everyday use and aims to leave hair feeling refreshed and lightweight. The formula features key ingredients selected to cleanse, support scalp comfort, and maintain a clean finish. Ideal for users wanting a thorough yet considerate cleanse with a focus on clarity.

Ingredient Overview

Water, Sodium Cocoyl Isethionate, Sodium Lauroyl Sarcosinate, Cocamidopropyl Hydroxysultaine, Glycol Distearate, Propanediol, Itaconic Acid, Arginine, Panthenol, Linseed Seed Extract, Chia Seed Extract, Polyglyceryl-10 Laurate, Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone, Polyquaternium-10, Hydroxypropyl Guar Hydroxypropyltrimonium Chloride, Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate, Fragrance, Hexyl Cinnamal, Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone, Citric Acid, Ethylhexylglycerin
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Highlights

#alcohol-free #has-fragrance #contains-colorants

Key Ingredients

Water

Base solvent

Sodium Cocoyl Isethionate

Very gentle coconut-derived surfactant

Sodium Lauroyl Sarcosinate

Gentle amino acid-based surfactant

Cocamidopropyl Hydroxysultaine

Gentle amphoteric surfactant

Glycol Distearate

Opacifier

Propanediol

Plant-derived humectant

Ingredient Table

Ingredient Details Rating
Water
Base solvent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Sodium Cocoyl Isethionate
Very gentle coconut-derived surfactant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Sodium Lauroyl Sarcosinate
Gentle amino acid-based surfactant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cocamidopropyl Hydroxysultaine
Gentle amphoteric surfactant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Glycol Distearate
Opacifier Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Propanediol
Plant-derived humectant Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Itaconic Acid
Bonding ingredient that repairs hair structure Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Arginine
Amino acid that strengthens hair Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Panthenol
Vitamin B5 that moisturizes and strengthens Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Linseed Seed Extract
Omega fatty acids for smoothing and shine Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Chia Seed Extract
Moisturizing omega-rich extract Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Polyglyceryl-10 Laurate
Gentle plant-derived emulsifier Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone
Modified silicone with amino acids Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Polyquaternium-10
Conditioning polymer Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Hydroxypropyl Guar Hydroxypropyltrimonium Chloride
Natural conditioning agent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Tetrasodium Glutamate Diacetate
Eco-friendly chelating agent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Fragrance
Added scent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Hexyl Cinnamal
Fragrance allergen Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Alpha-Isomethyl Ionone
Fragrance allergen Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Citric Acid
pH adjuster Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Ethylhexylglycerin
Gentle preservative booster Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good

Explanation of Key Groups

Surfactants

Primary and co-surfactants (e.g., Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Coco/Ampho betaines) provide the cleanse, foam, and removal of scalp oils. Mild co-surfactants help soften the feel and improve tolerance.

Clay Minerals

Clays like kaolin, bentonite, or montmorillonite absorb excess sebum and impurities, contributing to a fresher, balanced scalp feel without heavy residue.

Actives

Ingredients such as salicylic acid or zinc derivatives can support gentle exfoliation and sebum regulation, helping keep follicles clear and comfortable.

Humectants

Water-binding agents (e.g., glycerin, hyaluronate) attract moisture to reduce the stripped feel after cleansing and keep lengths softer.

Safety Notes & Allergens

  • Fragrance allergens (e.g., linalool, geraniol, coumarin) may be present if fragrance is listed.
  • Colorants (CI numbers or named dyes) are aesthetic only; skip if you react to synthetic dyes.
  • Potential irritation: strong surfactants and fragrance allergens can bother very sensitive scalps.
  • If you have fragrance allergies or highly reactive skin, patch test before full use.

Summary

Best suited for users seeking a clear, balanced cleanse. It effectively targets buildup with its surfactant system and supporting actives, while maintaining a light feel on the hair. Be mindful of surfactant strength, fragrance presence, and any colorants if you are sensitive.

Who is this product good for?

  • ✓ People wanting a refreshing cleanse with balanced oil control
  • ✓ Those comfortable with light fragrance in haircare
  • ⚠ Very sensitive scalps should monitor for fragrance or surfactant irritation