Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment
Not Your Mothers
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Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment

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Expert Recommendation

Good conditioning treatment with multiple moisturizing and detangling agents. Contains effective fatty alcohols and conditioning quaternary compounds. The Lactic Acid helps smooth the cuticle. Some fragrance components may irritate sensitive scalps. Best for damaged, dry, or thick hair needing intensive conditioning.

Quick Description

Tough Love Intense Bonding Treatment is a other crafted by Not Your Mothers to keep scalp and hair balanced. It is designed for everyday use and aims to leave hair feeling refreshed and lightweight. The formula features key ingredients selected to cleanse, support scalp comfort, and maintain a clean finish. Ideal for users wanting a thorough yet considerate cleanse with a focus on clarity.

Ingredient Overview

Water, Cetearyl Alcohol, Butylene Glycol, Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone, Behentrimonium Chloride, Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride, Glycerin, Cetrimonium Chloride, Ceteareth-20, Disodium PEG-12 Dimethicone Sulfosuccinate, Acrylamidopropyltrimonium Chloride/Acrylates Copolymer, Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum, Isohexadecane, Coceth-7, Isopropyl Alcohol, Fragrance, Hexyl Cinnamal, Aminomethyl Propanol, Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin, Lactic Acid
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Highlights

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Key Ingredients

Water

Base solvent

Cetearyl Alcohol

Fatty alcohol that conditions and softens hair without drying

Butylene Glycol

Humectant that helps retain moisture

Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone

Modified silicone with amino acids for enhanced conditioning

Behentrimonium Chloride

Excellent conditioning and detangling agent

Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride

Coconut-derived emollient that softens hair

Ingredient Table

Ingredient Details Rating
Water
Base solvent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetearyl Alcohol
Fatty alcohol that conditions and softens hair without drying Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Butylene Glycol
Humectant that helps retain moisture Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Bis-4-PCA Dimethicone
Modified silicone with amino acids for enhanced conditioning Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Behentrimonium Chloride
Excellent conditioning and detangling agent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Caprylic/Capric Triglyceride
Coconut-derived emollient that softens hair Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Glycerin
Humectant that attracts and retains moisture Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Cetrimonium Chloride
Anti-static conditioning agent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Ceteareth-20
Emulsifier that helps blend ingredients Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Disodium PEG-12 Dimethicone Sulfosuccinate
Silicone emulsifier Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Acrylamidopropyltrimonium Chloride/Acrylates Copolymer
Film-forming polymer that provides conditioning Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Caesalpinia Spinosa Gum
Natural plant-derived conditioning agent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Isohexadecane
Emollient solvent Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Coceth-7
Coconut-derived emulsifier Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Isopropyl Alcohol
Solvent that can be slightly drying Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Fragrance
Added scent, may irritate sensitive scalps Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Hexyl Cinnamal
Fragrance component, potential allergen Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Aminomethyl Propanol
pH adjuster Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Phenoxyethanol
Preservative, generally safe Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Moderate
Ethylhexylglycerin
Skin conditioning preservative booster Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good
Lactic Acid
AHA that smooths hair cuticle and balances pH Further: helps keep sebum and buildup in check, improves sensory slip, and stabilizes the formula across repeated washes.
Good

Explanation of Key Groups

Surfactants

Primary and co-surfactants (e.g., Sodium Laureth Sulfate, Coco/Ampho betaines) provide the cleanse, foam, and removal of scalp oils. Mild co-surfactants help soften the feel and improve tolerance.

Clay Minerals

Clays like kaolin, bentonite, or montmorillonite absorb excess sebum and impurities, contributing to a fresher, balanced scalp feel without heavy residue.

Actives

Ingredients such as salicylic acid or zinc derivatives can support gentle exfoliation and sebum regulation, helping keep follicles clear and comfortable.

Humectants

Water-binding agents (e.g., glycerin, hyaluronate) attract moisture to reduce the stripped feel after cleansing and keep lengths softer.

Safety Notes & Allergens

  • Fragrance allergens (e.g., linalool, geraniol, coumarin) may be present if fragrance is listed.
  • Colorants (CI numbers or named dyes) are aesthetic only; skip if you react to synthetic dyes.
  • Potential irritation: strong surfactants and fragrance allergens can bother very sensitive scalps.
  • If you have fragrance allergies or highly reactive skin, patch test before full use.

Summary

Best suited for users seeking a clear, balanced cleanse. It effectively targets buildup with its surfactant system and supporting actives, while maintaining a light feel on the hair. Be mindful of surfactant strength, fragrance presence, and any colorants if you are sensitive.

Who is this product good for?

  • ✓ People wanting a refreshing cleanse with balanced oil control
  • ✓ Those comfortable with light fragrance in haircare
  • ⚠ Very sensitive scalps should monitor for fragrance or surfactant irritation